So .... More than 24 hours ago I was at the salon getting my hair done, having a toast to my upcoming ceremony and thinking of what Doug was doing right then. Now are are in aother state getting ready to begin our honeymoon. I expected time to go fast and it was always on my mind the entire day and night ... but man time really did go fast!
I've never felt so much happiness in one day. I feel guilty saying that when I have Jaden, but his birthday was different....it came with exhaustion and nursing. Still one of the greatest days, just in a different way. Our wedding day had a lightness and honesty about it. Doug and I have pledge our lives together. To be there for one another and to be each other's constant support.
Over breakfast I asked Doug what his favorite memory was of the day ... he said it was dancing. I think my favorite part was how carefree everyone was....Doug was humorous and outgoing. I was roaming and soalizing. All the while, Doug and I had each other on our minds. We kissed at every chance we had and held hands most of the night. It is a memory that will serve as my reminder to always be there for him. To hold his hand through life and to kiss and make up.
I think one of my favorites, although it's hard to select just one ... was the limo ride. We had all of our closest friends and family there to celebrate us. Sherri brought good music and Rachael brough great drinks. It was a time to be silly and let loose. We could get obnoxious and just be goofy. We even were able to meet up with Katie for a mutual wedding photo opportunity. I can't put into words how wonderful it was to have my girls next to me ... both new girls and those that have always been there. The Rappis kids were so grown up and such a pleasure to have there. Syd wore her high tops the whole day ... they were rockin'!
Thank you to everyone who made it down or up to celebrate with us. We are so blessed to have friends and family like all of you! We will be thinking of you on our honeymoon and can't wait to remenise about the wedding with you when we get back!
Love, Mrs. Melissa Bissing
Monday, September 21, 2009
Reflections of a Newlywed
Sunday, September 13, 2009
Counting the Minutes
To say I'm not excited would be an utter lie. I can count the number of hours left til the weekend ... and how many hours left of work .. and how many minutes til I walk down the aisle. It's becoming more and more real each day. When we first got engaged it felt so far away ... like we had so much time to plan! And now I'm packing for our honeymoon and finalizing dinner orders. It's so exciting!
A special thank you to my mom and sister. If it weren't for them, I wouldn't be as calm as I am now (although Doug would argue I'm not calm at all). They have been my rock and gone WAY over board for me! I've got the greatest support system! I love you both very much! I hope you know how much your efforts and love mean to me!
It's grandparents day today, First one ever with two sets of grandparents to honor! Jaden is so lucky to be loved by so many. I want to raise him to know how special family is. There is nothing that he can do to alter mine or Doug's love for him and I know his grandparents feel the same way. What a lucky little guy to have four AMAZING grandparents!
Love, Mel
Monday, September 7, 2009
Will this be the last time signing Melissa Medal?
The wedding planning is in full force, including several calls a day between Mom, Rachael and myself. I've got over 100 of the brownie pops baked. I ran out of eggs, so I have to go and get more. The attendant gifts are just about finished; waiting for a few things to come in the mail. The day's agenda has been created and just needs some tweaking. All of the confirmation phone calls need to be made over the next week and a half.
I only have 6 days left of work. I can't believe it's happening so fast. I almost wish it would slow down so I could enjoy every second just a little bit longer. I've loved all of the planning and details. Although I could have gone without some of the tiffs. But all is turning out well!
I had my final dress fitting last week. She made some alterations that made the WORLD of a difference! I felt like a movie star in it! When it was time to change back into my clothes, I was sad to take it off. I can't even imagine the excitement and what will be going through my head the next time I put the dress on. That will be the last time I wear the dress too .. .the entire day long. From the moment I put that dress on, the entire day is going to fly by. Pictures with the girls, walking down the aisle, saying our vows, riding the limo, toasts, dancing, kisses, family. I just don't want it to be over!
We will be officially married and an official family. I'll be a Bissing. I should start practicing making my "B"s Although it takes a few weeks to get all the paperwork in order before I'm officially a Bissing. I think I get a new Social Security number ... but I'm not sure. I remember when Doug and I were dating I'd sometimes sign my name Melissa Bissing when paying at the grocery store. It was our way of playing house. Made both of us smile at the fact that some day it would be real. I would truely be Melissa Bissing. Now each time I sign my name, I think "what if this is the last time I'm a Medal?" I've thought that everytime I've signed my name since we've gotten engaged. Now it's getting close the the last time is nearing. But how exciting to know that I'll be a Bissing in less that two weeks!
Darn it, Jaden is up again ... Mom duty calls!
Love, Mel